What to look for when planning your wedding video
How to Choose a Wedding Videographer You'll Actually Love Working With
You've decided — you want your wedding day captured on film.
Now comes the real decision: Who should you trust with it?
As someone who's been lucky enough to document incredible days for couples, I know the choice isn't easy.
Here’s my take — built on real feedback from real couples — on what matters most when finding the right videographer for your day.
The Right Fit Matters More Than You Think
When you think about it, your videographer is going to be right there with you through almost every moment — from the nervous excitement of getting ready to the laughter late into the night.
You need someone you feel good around.
Not someone who makes you self-conscious or pulls you out of the moment.
You don’t have to become best friends, but if you naturally feel at ease talking and being yourself with them?
That’s a great sign you’re in the right hands.
Comfort = more genuine, natural footage (and way fewer awkward smiles).
Fall in Love with Their Storytelling Style
Every wedding videographer has their own unique lens — not just literally, but in how they see and tell your story.
Some favor slow, cinematic builds. Others love fast-paced, high-energy edits.
What matters most is that their style already resonates with you — before you even meet them.
When I edit wedding films, I always aim to reflect the true spirit of the day — not force it into a template.
That’s why I often hear couples say, "Watching it brought everything rushing back."
And that’s exactly the feeling you deserve, too.
Choose a videographer whose work feels like your kind of memory, not someone else's formula.
Your Day, Your Way
Your wedding is about you, not about building content for someone’s highlight reel.
A good videographer adapts to the day, not the other way around.
They'll know when to step back, when to offer subtle guidance, and when to simply let the magic unfold.
You shouldn’t be constantly pulled away from guests, or have your reception looking like a Hollywood production just for the sake of getting "the perfect shot."
The best moments are the real ones — not the staged ones.
My approach is simple: enhance the experience when needed, capture it honestly always.
Budget Wisely — Your Memories Are Worth It
Let’s be real: videography can be an investment.
And yes, there are budget videographers out there — but usually, low cost comes with compromises in experience, equipment, and the final product.
The way your wedding is filmed will outlive the flowers, the cake, and even the playlists you carefully curated.
A great film lets you relive the emotion, the laughter, the speeches, and the in-between moments for years to come.
If capturing those memories matters to you, make sure your budget reflects that priority.
You’re not just paying for video clips — you’re investing in your ability to relive one of the best days of your life.
Final Thought: Trust Your Gut
At the end of the day, beyond portfolio reels and packages, it all comes down to trust.
Trust in their work. Trust in their presence on your day. Trust in how they'll tell your story.
Find someone who feels like a natural extension of your day, not an addition to your to-do list.
If you feel like my style and approach could be a good fit, I’d love to hear about the wedding you're planning.
Reach out here — even if you’re just starting the process, I’m happy to chat.